Dating a woman with a boyfriend
And it works both ways – if you’re mature for your age, then you’ll naturally be attracted to older men.Make sure you’re not missing out on a good time because you’re worried about what other people think about the number of candles on a cake.I once got with a 37-year-old who had absolutely no idea what he was doing down there.The 20-somethings all had way more of a clue than him.
Women get stick for being the obsessive, crazy sex, but in my experience, it’s the opposite. ‘Younger guys aren’t as forceful or bothered.’ On top of this, the older guys had no chat. My penchant for the younger lad also probably has a lot to do with the fact I’m pretty immature for my age – I was a very late developer so always feel like I’m a good few years behind everyone else.
’ It’s the same with platonic friends too – while working in Sri Lanka, my closest friend was nine years younger than me, and it wasn’t a problem.
She was mature for her age and I was immature for my age. There’s also this misconception that older guys are better in bed. Unless you’re dating 16-year-olds (not recommended unless you’re also a teen), chances are the guy you’re sleeping with will have had a fair amount of experience and if your bodies work together, your bodies will work together.
Any time we drank together, I told her how much I liked her.
I was messing with her head and didn't even realize it, or I guess I didn't care.